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Which martial art is right for your child?

Taekwondo, karate, jiu-jitsu, judo and more, compared honestly by people who are not trying to sell you a membership.

Explore the styles

Seven styles American kids most often train. Tap one to see how it works, what classes look like and who it suits.

Quiz · 6 questionsWhich martial art fits my child?Age, personality, goals and budget in, your child's top three styles out, with the reasons.CalculatorWhat will it really cost?Tuition, belt tests, gear and fees added up for the first year and beyond, for any style.SearchFind a class near youSearch by ZIP code and style, see the official club directories and take our visit checklist.
Children in karate, judo and BJJ uniforms training on colorful mats while parents watch from a bench

Watch a class before you choose

The best test of any school is a trial class. Find clubs near you, bring our one-page checklist and see how your child feels on the mat.

The quick version. Every school is different, so treat starting ages as a guide.

StyleTypeUsual startOlympicComes from
TaekwondoStriking: mostly kicksAbout 4 to 6Yes, since 2000Korea
KarateStriking: hands and feetAbout 4 to 6Tokyo 2020 onlyOkinawa and Japan
Brazilian Jiu-JitsuGrappling on the groundAbout 4 to 6NoBrazil
JudoGrappling: throws and pinsAbout 5 to 7Yes, since 1964Japan
Kung Fu and WushuStriking and formsAbout 5 to 7NoChina
WrestlingGrappling: takedowns and pinsClubs from about 5YesWorldwide
Muay Thai and KickboxingStriking: punches, kicks, kneesUsually 8 and upNoThailand and worldwide

The big questions parents ask

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